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(And has way more cool points.) Just make sure your socks underneath dont show

If there's even a chance you might draw attention away from the guest of honor, wear something else

In her book Dress Your Best Life , New York-based fashion psychologist Dr Dawnn Karen writes that yellow can "imbue its wearer with an aura of cheerfulness and approachability"

Paul Hadfield/Splash News/Newscom/File Kate Middleton looks the picture of carefree singlehood in simple wrap dress as she arrives home in London in 2007

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In that case, the black Oxford sneaker is worth a look